Do You Accept Yourself Even When Others Don’t
This post will explore the question of whether you’re willing to accept yourself even when you don’t feel accepted by others.
“At our deepest core, we’re all craving to be fully seen.”
Your mere presence can make someone feel safe, secure, and seen simply by the state of your own relationship to safety, security, and feeling seen with yourself, first.
It’s easy to assume that you’re creating this for others but then bypass the depths of intimacy that are available FOR YOU if this hasn’t been created with YOU first.
Can you look at your mistakes without judgment?
Can you look at your reflection without perfectionistic knit-picking?
Can you accept yourself even when others don’t?
At our deepest core, we’re all craving to be fully seen.
To be validated
To be enough
To be accepted
What if I told you that it’s possible that it can happen right now
As is
…Without fixing
…Without striving
…Without perfecting
Your thoughts just need some TLC. Your brain believes what you think.
Self-acceptance
That’s it.
Now, my question for you is ‘do you believe this is possible for you?’
If you aren’t there yet, this is the thought work we’ll do together to create a mind-blowing intimate relationship with YOU that will positively impact & infect every relationship in your life.
Healing self sabotaging behaviors
ABOUT THE AUTHOR I’m Meg Smithson and I remember vividly the heartache, distress, and agony that self sabotaging behaviors caused me. Between eating disorders, anxiety, major self doubt, and constant imbalance, I couldn’t seem to live the fulfilling life I imagined.
If you are currently dealing with this, I get it & know exactly how you feel.
I spent a decade of heartache striving to fit the elusive mold of what mainstream considered “perfect” all while trying to figure out why I was put on this earth.
I learned to listen to what I needed…
…not what others expected of me. Gradually, I felt freedom like I had never imagined I could.
What does a relationship coach do?
Now, I teach women to find that freedom, too, by helping them create the relationship that they really want, faster by first healing their attachment to shame, people pleasing, & perfectionism.
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Meg Smithson, Life Coach
Meg coaches women by identifying areas of self sabotage, helping them break up with the shame that usually accompanies that, and then shows them how to set boundaries around the emerging 2.0 version they want to become, and live that life, unapologetically.
Click to schedule a life coaching consultation with Meg.
