Meg Smithson Coaching
I felt deep shame with my body and my worth, and it wrecked my relationships.
Hi, I’m Meg,
In 2009, I found myself at a crossroads in my life, after ditching my dental career path, calling off a fully paid-for wedding two months prior, and battling extremely low self worth.
As much as I wanted a husband & family, I felt like enough of a 'hot mess’ on my own, that taking on the daunting task of more didn’t seem like it was in the cards for me.
For a majority of my life, I silently battled shame without realizing this was the root cause for my over-working, addicted to ‘fixing’ my imperfections, dating men in an attempt to build my self esteem, and people pleasing & proving myself in order to receive external validation.
Life coaching for healing
I wanted to be seen and loved for who I truly was, but wasn’t being true to who I truly was at my core.
I realized that I needed to heal my relationship with myself, first, or else I would stay stuck on this shame insanity cycle, exhausting myself from all the people pleasing, perfectionism, and proving.
I decided enough was enough, and I started seeking anything and everything that I could get my hands on to help me.
I invested in myself via: Holistic schooling, certifications, tons of books, podcasts, TEDx, masterminds, high level coaching.
“I BECAME the list”
In the words of Lisa Nichols “I BECAME the list” of the person I wanted to attract and drastically changed the thoughts I had about myself. And, it worked tenfold.
Now, life looks and feels completely different. I run my dream business doing what I love (coaching).
I am married to my dream husband and we’re building our little Smithson family. I know/appreciate/value my self worth and the value I offer the world.
I have unattached my worth to external validation, approval, achievement, performance, and my physical appearance.
Peace of mind, truly is the new success, and has brought so much more fun, freedom, and fulfillment in my life, far more than I ever imagined.
It truly is a full-circle moment to help clients create that in their lives, too! (Phewwww I still can’t believe I teach this now…God is amazing).
“Self sabotage was the drug that kept my addiction to perfectionism alive.”
“I didn’t need to escape my own life…I just needed to make positive, sustainable lifestyle changes.”
— MEG SMITHSON
I learned to listen to what I needed…
…not what others expected of me. Gradually, I felt freedom like I had never imagined I could.
Fast forward, I’m living a life I could never fathom.
Freedom in my body without obsession.
Freedom with food.
Freedom in my relationship to be authentically & vulnerably me (I married my best friend).
And, the freedom came at a level beyond my wildest dreams, the more I aligned with God and His vision for my life. Now, He’s entrusted me to help women all over the world with their relationship struggles.
Crazy right? I’m no different than you. My mess has become my message...I want that for you too!
By addressing my own challenges, I’ve developed techniques and strategies for teaching others like you to feel comfortable and confident in their own skin and to reach the type of success that they yearn. Today that is what I do for a living. Crazy, right?
I’ve created simple ways to turn your self sabotage into success. I want you to beat the perfection addiction too and detox from life’s negative influences. By sharing my past hidden darknesses, my mission is to connect with others who are still suffering and show them there is freedom from self sabotage.
My Unstoppable Mission
Building Bulletproof Relationships is about creating a #lovelegacy for generations to come. The relationship that you have with yourself impacts ALL connections, now & in the future.
What you do today, impacts the love that future generations will mock, imitate, and learn from, & then pass on from generations to come.
Are you leaving a lasting, infectious type of love dynamic that is worth repeating & passing on? If not, let’s fix that until it’s something you’re proud of!
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