Self betrayal doesn’t look good on you

This post will explore the cycle of feeling stuck and why some people perpetuate the cycle by trying to keep up with others who are stuck, too.

Dysregulated, resentful, bad energy, loads of blame, & stuck in this cycle to keep up with people who are stuck too.

Self betrayal doesn’t look good on you.


Dysregulated, resentful, bad energy, loads of blame, & stuck in this cycle to keep up with people who are stuck too. 


This isn’t what life’s all about. 

This isn’t truly living. 



And, life doesn’t have to be this way. 

YOU have choice (yep EVEN when the circumstances feel stacked against you). 

 
 
 

If you’re triggered, you may fall into this category because you’ve given your agency away to people pleasing & parent pleasing & maybe partner pleasing. Oh yeah, & perfectionism. 


This is totally fixable. We just have to dig a little to become aware of the patterns that are directing these motives. 


This awareness can be life-changing & life-GIVING. 


Then, I’ll teach you how to set boundaries, without guilt. 


And go from:


SELF-BETRAYAL 🔜 BULLETPROOF



What if I told you that it’s possible & that it can happen right now?


Is this you? Let’s setup a consult call to discuss 1-on-1 high level coaching! 

When you start to tap into possibility, doors open that you never believed were possible. Let’s connect.


Healing self sabotaging behaviors

ABOUT THE AUTHOR I’m Meg Smithson and I remember vividly the heartache, distress, and agony that self sabotaging behaviors caused me. Between eating disorders, anxiety, major self doubt, and constant imbalance, I couldn’t seem to live the fulfilling life I imagined. 

If you are currently dealing with this, I get it & know exactly how you feel.

I spent a decade of heartache striving to fit the elusive mold of what mainstream considered “perfect” all while trying to figure out why I was put on this earth.

I learned to listen to what I needed…

…not what others expected of me. Gradually, I felt freedom like I had never imagined I could.

What does a relationship coach do?

Now, I teach women to find that freedom, too, by helping them create the relationship that they really want, faster by first healing their attachment to shame, people pleasing, & perfectionism.

Click to schedule a free consult!

Meg Smithson, Life Coach

Meg coaches women by identifying areas of self sabotage, helping them break up with the shame that usually accompanies that, and then shows them how to set boundaries around the emerging 2.0 version they want to become, and live that life, unapologetically.

Click to schedule a life coaching consultation with Meg.

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